Some thoughts about violence on International Women’s Day

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[Editor's Note: A couple days ago, Matador CEO Ross Borden forwarded me this article by Nicholas Kristof about a 10 year old Yemeni girl who was married to a man three times her age and subsequently sought a divorce. It was too much for me to write about--the many forms of violence against women sometimes just become too oppressive to meditate on.

Today is International Women's Day. Organizers say it's a day to "celebrate the economic, political, and social achievements of women" around the world. And we should.

But as Matador contributor Reeti Roy reminds us in this article, we can't forget--even when it's hard for us to think about--the economic, political, and social forces that conspire to keep women oppressed and prevent them from accomplishing their goals and dreams.]

[Note: This is by no means an exhaustive list. Neither am I consciously privileging one set of violences over others. I have only attempted to highlight a few problems that plague the world in general and women in particular.]

The United Nations defines violence against women as any act of gender based violence that results in, or is likely to result in physical, sexual, or mental harm or suffering to women.

According to The World Health Organization (WHO), many women do not seek help or report violence when it occurs. WHO also notes that violence against women is a major public health problem and a violation of human rights.

“Women’s Rights Are Human Rights”

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Two years after The Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women, on September 5, 1995, Hillary Clinton spoke about women’s rights as human rights, highlighting dowry deaths, genital mutilation, female foeticide, and malnutrition. Fifteen years later, these problems continue to plague us the world over.

Dowry Deaths

In parts of India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh, where women are often considered their husband’s property, the “dowry” is a veiled form of extorting money from a girl’s family. The Dowry Prohibition Act states:

In this act, ‘dowry’ means any property or valuable security given or agreed to be given either directly or indirectly-
(a) By one party to a marriage to the other party to the marriage; or
(b) By the parents of either party to a marriage or by any other person, to either party to the marriage or to any other person;
at or before or any time after the marriage in connection with the marriage of said parties but does not include dower or mahr in the case of persons to whom the Muslim Personal Law (Shariat) applies.

In India, the Dowry Prohibition Act came into being in 1961. Yet, even today we read reports of women being burnt alive.

Forced Genital Mutilation

Thoraya Obaid, Executive Director of The United States Population Fund, stated in an interview that “every year, the parents of three million girls and women agree to allow their girls/daughters to allow female genital mutilation/ cutting in order to conform to social traditions.”

Female genital mutilation occurs in Ethiopia, Senegal, and Indonesia, among other countries, and is thought of more as a cultural rather than a religious practice. Genital mutilation is often thought of as a way of reinstating patriarchal power structures and is often justified by stating that “circumcision” ensures that a woman is loyal to her husband.

It is important to distinguish between genital mutilation and clitoridectomy, where women have the freedom to choose whether they want to be circumcised or not.

Female Foeticide

Sex selective abortions are rampant in countries like China and India. Increasing female foeticide in India could spark a demographic crisis where fewer women in society will result in a rise in sexual violence and child abuse as well as wife sharing, according to the United Nations.

Malnutrition

The World Health Organization cites malnutrition as the gravest single threat to the world’s public health. Those living in very poor nations often cannot afford even a single meal a day.

Economist and Nobel laureate Amartya Sen has articulated that gender discrimination in health care leads to the malnutrition of women.

What we can do

All of us can help in some way.

We can write about the injustices meted out to women at our workplaces. As travelers, we can be conscious of the heinous crimes in different countries and highlight them. We can take pictures and use our blogs to spread the word. As human beings and citizens of the world, we can actively ensure that women the world over are safe from violence and can live with basic human dignity.

Community Connection:

Have you confronted oppression of women in your travels? What have you seen and how have you responded? Share your thoughts in the comments.


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About the Author

Reeti Roy

Reeti Roy is a B.A final year student of English Literature from Calcutta, India. Her primary interests are travel, cross cultural dialogue, women's rights and Indian classical music. When not reading or arguing passionately for a cause, she can be found playing with her pesky five year old Doberman.

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  • Heather Carreiro replied on March 8, 2010

    Reeti this is such a powerful piece. Have you read Blasphemy by Tehmina Durrani? It is a powerful expose of these types of injustice.

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    • Reeti replied to Heather Carreiro on March 10, 2010

      I have. It was given to me as a birthday present some years ago. I’d love to discuss the book with you some time.

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  • Trisha Miller replied on March 8, 2010

    I agree with Heather – very powerful piece, very sobering.

    Even more than the great ideas listed, we can use our voices to encourage our government to bring pressure on the governments of countries where these atrocities take place. Even where there may be laws on the books against such heinous acts, enforcement needs to be a priority. But most important in the war against violence against women is education – we need to support efforts to educate younger generations of both males and females that this cannot be tolerated. When men grow up having learned respect for women, maybe we can finally put this issue to rest as a painful past, never to be repeated.

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    • Reeti replied to Trisha Miller on March 10, 2010

      Thanks for raising some very interesting points Trisha

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  • Rebecca replied on March 8, 2010

    Thanks for another thoughtful piece Reeti, and on such an important day for women!

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  • neha replied on March 9, 2010

    Thanks for this piece Reeti. It’s so important to vocalize support by speaking out against violence, discrimination and harassment, and enable women to have more control over their own lives.

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    • Reeti replied to neha on March 10, 2010

      Absolutely. Even if we can make tiny changes in the world, I think it’s worth it in the end :)

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  • Anne replied on March 12, 2010

    This story should be essential reading for women and men.

    Kudos for shedding light on female foeticide, especially. I don’t think it’s discussed enough, and the consequences make my skin crawl.

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  • Rosie replied on March 24, 2010

    This is very moving & very thought provoking. It saddens me to think that so much of this goes on in a supposed civilised world in the twenty first century,

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